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こころノート https://validator.w3.org/feed/docs/rss2.html ホーム毒親の連鎖を止める｜なぜ繰り返してしまうのか、その構造と出口「母は悲劇のヒロイン」裕子さんの場合②｜自分を被害者だと思い込む親の特徴 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse — Why It Repeats, the Structure Behind It, and the Way Out 虐待を「相談できる親」と「できない親」の違い｜知能と自覚の関係を解説 Why Some Abusive Parents Ask for Help — and Others Never Do My Mother Was Always the Victim — Yuko’s Story (Part 2): When a Parent Cannot Celebrate You “I Could Never Be Normal” — Yuko’s Story: An Abuse Survivor’s Confession of Self-Blame The Apology That Will Never Come — Why Abusive Parents Cannot Change The Five Stages of Emotional Development — Security, Selfhood, Rule-Learning, Boundary, and Autonomy Why Does Abuse “Repeat”? Four Intergenerational Patterns and How They Differ A Note Before Reading — About the Kocoro Note When Trauma Looks Like ADHD — Why Abused Children Are Misdiagnosed as Having Developmental Disorders About Kokoro Note | Who Writes Here Unhealthy Pairs Hidden in Plain Sight — Why Abuse Survivors Are Drawn Into Controlling Relationships The Parent Who Apologizes, and the Parent Who Does Not “Parents and Children Always Understand Each Other” — The Myth That Isolates Abuse Survivors MailPoet Page MailPoet Page Don’t Be Misled by “I’m Struggling” — How Support Workers Can Tell Distress from Maladjustment Why You Can’t Say No — The Gift You Never Received: Boundaries 健全な育ちに必要なギフト②「自我」を獲得する｜「自分が何をしたいのかわからない」の正体 Why You Don’t Know What You Want — The Gift You Never Received: A Sense of Self なぜ人を信じられないのか｜健全な育ちに必要なギフト①「安心」「親子なら分かり合える。」― 虐待サバイバーには通じない、その前提 Mothers Raised in Abuse — Their Unspoken Struggles and How Supporters Can Recognize Them 「虐待は連鎖する」と信じられてきた理由｜この通説は本当か？ Why People Believed “Abuse Always Cycles” — And What the Research Actually Shows What Is the Difference Between Abuse and “Discipline”? Understanding Where the Line Really Is 子への謝罪がある親と、ない親。 Why Ten Years of Counseling Didn’t Work — Yukie’s Case: When ‘Being Agreeable’ Becomes a Barrier to Recovery For You, Who Have Spent Your Life Pretending to Be “Normal” — The Hidden Struggle of Abuse Survivors What Are ‘Mild’ Intellectual Disability and Borderline Intelligence? The Hidden Spectrum Most People Never See The Surprising Things That Become Difficult with Lower IQ — Perspective-Taking and Emotional Regulation The Intelligence Problem Behind Child Abuse — Why Mild ID and Borderline Intelligence Are Overrepresented Why Abuse Survivors Feel Nothing — “Emotional Numbness” Was a Survival Strategy Why ‘Normal Parents’ Never Abuse Their Children — The Fundamental Difference Mai, Who Kept Saying “I Don’t Hate Her” — The Psychology of Protecting an Abusive Parent 運営者について「普通」のふりをして生きてきた、あなたへ ― 虐待サバイバーが抱える生きづらさの正体 Wanting to Disappear, Not to Die — Suicidal Ideation in Abuse Survivors 「私、悩んでいるんです！」に惑わされない親不孝への恐怖——紀子さんの場合 Why You Can’t Trust People — The Gift You Never Received in Childhood 「普通のお母さんがほしかった」詩織さんの場合｜虐待サバイバーの体験談「全てを決める母」早紀さんの場合｜過干渉という名の支配を受けて「虐待の世代間連鎖」は誤解されている｜虐待サバイバーが子どもを虐待するとは限らない「生き延びた幼少期」浩一さんの場合｜身体的虐待を受けた男性の体験談「サンドバッグにされた子供時代」亮太さんの場合｜暴力と支配の家庭で育って The “Intergenerational Cycle of Abuse” Is Misunderstood — Survivors Are Not Destined to Repeat the Past